Girls Are Madly In Love With These Secret Things But They Never Tell You

Girls Are Madly In Love With These Secret Things But They Never Tell You

We all have those fantasies that we find our minds wondering to that get us really hot and heavy. They can range from freaky to creepy and often are things we think we will never really end up trying but that forbidden nature just adds to the fantasy. And when we say everyone that includes all the girls around you too. They love to fantasize about and even partake in all sorts of fetishes in secret. If that surprises you, then get ready to lose your sh*t over what you're about to learn.

Everyone Wants to be a Star

Everyone Wants to be a Star

To many men's surprise, women also love to watch a bit of passionate action, possibly over and over again. In particular, when they're in it, not to mention the thrill of knowing what you're doing is being captured for re-watching. But you will need to ask her, she won't ask you and AFFIRMATIVE CONSENT is a must!!!

Tie Me Up

Tie Me Up

While watch Christian and Anastasia introduced into the mainstream was a far cry from realistic kinks etc. what it did do was bring attention to those deep dark fantasies. There's pleasure in power play and she's likely to jump (in a good way) at the suggestion of being tied up.

Thumbs up for Accessories

Thumbs up for Accessories

It's highly unlikely that you've ever come across a girl that doesn't love to accessorise, sure the accessories may differ depending on her style and look, but they're always there. The bedrooms no exception, the makeshift tie has its place but a pair of fluffy hand-cuffs are another level.

Blindfolds

Blindfolds

Blind folds are amazing in the bedroom. Do be pre-warned though, they require a huge amount of trust between partners. Some trust quickly and others don't, if need be, be patient. The blindfold deprives her of sight making her concentrate on all her other senses.

Dirty Talk

Dirty Talk

You may have heard the importance of saying 'I love you' frequently and with variety in a relationship. This is definitely true but in the bedroom, it pays to mix it up with a different demeanour sometimes. Let the devil out! Don't feel self-conscious, she'll love this dirty side.

Lubes

Lubes

If you're a man you're probably used to using or at least have experimented using some lube when you're by yourself. In fact, it can be like good when you're with your partner too. There's nothing worse for her when things are a bit dry down there, and that can happen for no good reason too.

Roleplay

Roleplay

We all love a bit of escapism, the popularity of video games, films and TV proves that. Roleplaying in the bedroom can be a huge turn on too. It can be a simple role such as doctor patient or even something fiction from her favourite show.

Spooning

Spooning

It's not all or always about the rough and dirty stuff. There is space and desire for a loving and caring touch too. Showing your desire for and willingness to engaging in this kind of intimacy with your partner can be even more of a turn on than the dirty stuff.

Adult Movies

Adult Movies

As mentioned before it's not just men who like to indulge in adult film viewing. A quick warning that she may not be into this and her tastes may be very different from yours. But embarking on this adventure together can be insanely sexy.

Toys Are Us

Toys Are Us

Toys are not just for young kids or geeks in love with shows and books. They are for the bedroom too. From vibrators and stimulators to whips, if it's in the shop they've probably thought of trying it before. There's a whole new world for you to explore together.

Get a Little Messy

Get a Little Messy

You need to pick the right kind of messy, but if you get this right you will find that girls love to get a little messy. Even as a man you should know that woman don't like their painstakingly perfect hair and make-up to be ruined but try using some sticky fruits or messy fruits in the bedroom to understand how good messy can be.

Shaving

Shaving

Don't be alarmed, we're not suggesting a woman needs to grow a beard just to shave it, girls don't grow beards. But they are still proficient with a razor and it's a fun intimacy building activity to let her help you out with your shave.

Strip Tease

Strip Tease

I'm sure all your minds have jumped to either a good lap dance at the strip club or haw sexy a strip-tease for your partner is but we're talking about you reciprocating. Girls get off on their man stripping down with a bit of a dance too.

Add an Extra Partner, Or Two

Add an Extra Partner, Or Two

Now I won't lie to you, going down this is risky and complicated, but the rewards can be well worth it. If you talk about this kind of thing with your partner, you may be surprised that many girls are at least curious about this.

Communication

Communication

And last, but definitely not least, is a good conversation. Your partner wants to sit down with you and have that deep intense conversation about the realities and confronting them. It's just as important to her as everything else but she might be a little scared to initiate this kind of conversation.